Frequently asked questions.
How do I book a session?
You can book a session by filling out my submission form.
In-person engagements: Please note that I need 24h advance notice in order to adequately prepare for an in-person session; same-day requests are not accepted. For my safety, I require your name and the contact information of 1-2 pro-dommes that you have sessioned with recently. If you are not able to provide references, I require your LinkedIn and another social media profile that includes your name (e.g. Facebook, Instagram). An electronic deposit will be required to lock in an appointment.
Virtual sessions: Sometimes same-day virtual sessions are available at my discretion; however, your best bet is to book 24h in advance. The full tribute is required before the session and must be sent electronically.
What is your tribute?
My tribute varies depending on the type and length of engagement (e.g. in-person session, virtual session, consultation, social rendezvous, extended/overnight, double-/multi-domme). I will send you a quote after I receive your inquiry.
What is your cancellation/rescheduling policy?
I understand that we cannot expect the unexpected. However, it takes time and effort to prepare for our engagements, so any cancellation/rescheduling must be done 48h in advance in order for your deposit to be credited towards a future session.
Where are you located?
I take sessions at private dungeons and play spaces in Manhattan. On occasion, I travel to other major cities such as San Francisco, London, and Tokyo. Outcalls and FMTY are available for established clients, with additional fees for travel over 30 minutes.
When are you available?
Sessions are generally conducted after 6pm on weekdays, and between 10am-10pm on weekends. Additional hours may be available at my discretion. My availability is limited, so advance booking is recommended, and I will prioritize sessions that align with my interests (e.g. shibari).
Do you allow sessions with novice or first-time submissives?
Most definitely. An educator at heart, I love introducing novices to the intricate and indulgent world of BDSM. While I understand that a beginner might not be able to provide references for screening purposes, I will still need you to verify your identity for security reasons.
Is it safe/clean?
Life involves many risks, but many of those risks can be mitigated through education and common sense. I adhere to the RACK (risk-aware consensual kink) principles of BDSM. In my everyday life, I am a mental health counselor and am trained to safely bring people into and out of intense psychological spaces. I am also certified in CPR/AED and First Aid through The American Red Cross.
Hygiene is of the utmost importance to me. If you book an in-person session, feel safe knowing that I have thoroughly cleaned and sanitized any toys and surfaces prior to your arrival.
Discretion is guaranteed. I delete all personal information gathered during screening after we meet. Blackmail and extortion is only fun when it's consensual.
Do sessions have to include pain?
While pain is often an effective way of enforcing the power exchange that happens during a session, it is by no means necessary. There are plenty of ways to get my point across without laying a finger (or whip/cane/flogger...etc.) on you.
What if I am too scared to session with you?
You wouldn’t be the first. However, there are other ways to engage with me. You can book a consultation or social engagement, or spoil me from afar. The best submissives know that the ultimate act of service is to please and entertain their Mistress.
